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Renew Your Relationship Instead of Getting Bored


“Practice random beauty and senseless acts of love”.

Boredom in a relationship is often cause for alarm, there’s really no need to panic. Most of us grow tired with our everyday routines, including our connection with our partner, because we are human and we crave variety. But it can be easily remedied, with a little effort.

Practice random beauty and senseless acts of love." - Anonymous Inspiring  quotes from LittleThings | Inspirational quotes, Acts of love, Feel good  stories

According to relationship experts, there are plenty of ways to combat the day in, day out lull of long-term relationships. In fact, even if you’re quite satisfied with your relationship, keep in mind it never hurts to try new hobbies, shake things up, and learn more about each other, as a way of staying close and having fun again.

There is a difference between a relationship maturing with two individuals growing comfortable with each other, and no longer making the effort to do things that make your partner’s fingers tingle and heart swell

1. Make Sure You’re Taking Good Care of Yourself

If you’re all but falling asleep in your relationship, it may mean you’re actually bored in general, and not necessarily bored with your partner. So start by taking a look at your current goals.

Self-Care: 12 Ways to Take Better Care of Yourself | Psychology Today

2. Don’t stop listening

Listening is one of the ways that we show others that we value them and that they are attractive and interesting to us. So don’t stop listening.

Why active listening may help your relationship – SheKnows

3. Do the things that don’t matter to you but matter to them

In a mature relationship, passion can be shown by genuinely understanding and responding to your partner’s needs.

20 Things That Don't Matter in Life. | by Jon Brosio | The Startup | Medium

4. Find Something to Look Forward to as A Couple

Don’t forget to plan something fun for the future, such as a vacation or a project you can work on together. Planning dates, an event, or a project together ignites companionship and appreciation.

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5. Try A Staycation with Your Partner

Staycations are a great relationship booster and require very little travel, money, or excessive planning. This brief change of venue gets both of you out of your normal routine and element, and allows you to have new experiences and build new memories together.

Bringing Your Partner On Family Vacation Will Give You These 7 Thoughts

6. Do Something New Every Day

Whatever you do, find that “one thing that makes the day feel different, which can change up your routine for the better.

100 Hobbies For Couples To Do Together: The Ultimate List!

There are many more ways you can ignite the spark in your relationship. I’m still finding more. Look at it as a lifelong adventure!

The most important thing is to give it time in your own head and to prioritize your relationship so that you keep working on it regularly, like you would with any priority in your work life. Then hopefully you can be grow old together but still maintain that flicker of passion in your hearts

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Much Love





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